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How to Create Sustainable Behaviour Change

How to Create Sustainable Behaviour Change

Have you ever found yourself inspired by a motivational talk, a self-help book, or a compelling article on personal development? You feel a surge of motivation and enthusiasm, vowing to make significant changes in your life. Yet, as time goes by, that initial burst of energy wanes, and you find yourself slipping back into your old habits and routines. If this sounds familiar, you’re not alone. Creating sustainable behaviour change is a challenge faced by many, but it’s not insurmountable. In this blog post, we’ll explore how to turn insights into action and create lasting transformations in your life.

Understanding the Nature of Behavior Change

Before diving into strategies for sustainable behaviour change, it’s essential to understand the complexity of human behaviour. Behaviour change is not a linear process; it involves a multitude of factors, including motivation, habits, environment, and emotions. People often struggle with behaviour change because they focus solely on motivation and willpower, neglecting the other critical components.

1. Start with Self-Awareness: The first step towards creating sustainable behaviour change is self-awareness. Take the time to reflect on your current behaviours, habits, and patterns. Identify the areas in your life where you’d like to see improvements. Leadership assessment and profiling tools can be useful in gaining a deeper understanding of yourself and your motivations. Remember, self-awareness is an ongoing process, and it requires honesty and openness to yourself.

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2. Create Realistic Habits: Once you’ve identified your desired changes, break them down into smaller, achievable habits. Rather than focusing on a distant goal you hope to reach in the future, hone in on the habits and regular practices you can put in place to get you there. James Clear, author of Atomic Habits, explains that small changes in behaviour lead to significant transformations over time, compound interest in a way.  It’s the systems and daily practice that you put in place that create the outcome not the “goal” or end result. 

3. Understand Motivation: Motivation is the driving force behind behaviour change, but it’s not a constant. It can fluctuate, making it crucial to understand your sources of motivation. Are you motivated by external factors like praise and rewards, or is your motivation intrinsic, driven by personal values and passions? Recognising your motivation sources can help you maintain your commitment when things get tough.

Taking Insights to Action: Strategies for Sustainable Behavior Change

Now that you have a foundational understanding of behaviour change, let’s delve into practical strategies to turn insights into action and create lasting change.

1. Cultivate Habits

Habits are powerful drivers of behaviour. Whether positive or negative, habits shape our daily lives. To create sustainable behaviour change, focus on cultivating positive habits. Start by:

  • Identifying Trigger Points: Recognise the situations or cues that trigger you to engage in your new habit or that trigger the habit you are trying to break. Create the triggers that drive the new behaviour. These should be obvious and hard to ignore, such as a set time of day, a specific location, another activity, or a certain emotion.
  • Consistency is Key: Consistency is crucial when forming new habits. Set a specific time and place for your new habit, and stick to it daily. Over time, it will become second nature.

2. Create a Supportive Environment

Your environment plays a significant role in shaping your behaviour. To make sustainable changes, modify your environment to support your goals:

  • Surround Yourself with Positivity: Surround yourself with people who support your goals and share your vision. Often, our desire to belong overpowers our desire for change. By seeking out others with similar aspirations, you create a supportive network to help you stay on track.
  • Make It Easy: Make the desired behaviour as easy as possible. Adapt your environment to encourage the habit you’re trying to create. If you want to read more books, keep a book on your bedside table, or download audiobooks for your commute.

3. Build Resilience

No matter how motivated you are, there will be setbacks along the way. Building resilience is crucial for sustaining behaviour change:

  • Expect Setbacks: Understand that setbacks are a natural part of the process. Rather than viewing them as failures, consider them opportunities for growth and learning. For developing leaders, it is important to look at the leadership skills that are required to build resilience and overcome setbacks.
  • Seek Support: Don’t be afraid to seek support when facing difficulties or making new commitments to growth and change. Whether it’s a mentor, coach, or a support group, having someone to help hold you accountable and guide you through challenges can be incredibly valuable.

4. Monitor and Track Progress

Regularly monitoring and tracking your progress is essential for successful habit building:

  • Keep a Journal: Maintain a journal to record your daily progress and reflect on your journey. This can help you identify patterns, triggers, and areas for improvement.
  • Use Technology: There are many apps and tools designed to help you track your goals and habits. Whether it’s a habit-tracking app, or a goal-setting platform, leverage technology to stay accountable. Successful leadership development programs will incorporate habit building and tracking technology to support the growth and development of their leaders beyond the program.
  • Embrace a Manual Approach: Don’t discount a simple star chart! Yes, we are adults but there is a real satisfaction that comes from a visual representation that you have achieved what you set out to do. Whether that is completing your workout, alcohol free day, meditation, the team check in, or taking time to read.

Creating sustainable behaviour change is a challenging but rewarding journey. It involves self-awareness, habit cultivation, environmental modifications, resilience building, and progress monitoring. Remember that setbacks are a natural part of the process, and self-compassion is essential.

The key to turning insights into action is consistency and determination. Be patient with yourself, stay focused on your motivations, and adapt your strategies as needed. Over time, your insights will transform into lasting behaviour change, and you’ll find yourself living a more fulfilling and purpose-driven life.

So, what are you waiting for? Start your journey today, armed with these strategies, and watch as your insights evolve into sustained, positive action in your life.

One final tip, choose one thing at a time.  What is the one small thing you can start right now that you know will have a lasting impact over time. People often overestimate what they can do in a week or a month and grossly underestimate what they can achieve in a year of consistent, regular and small changes. Think big, act small, you will be surprised at the outcome.

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